Truth can be dreams: When do you stop?

Thursday, December 29, 2005

When do you stop?

How much stuff do you need? I am always thinking about what I need and don't need. There is a huge difference between 'need' and 'want'. I am always tiring to separate those in my mind. There are plenty of things I want and really very little that I need. Here's my list.

Need
-Jesus
-food
-water
-place to live
-clothes to cover my body
Let's just leave it that basic.

Want
-Jesus
-good food
-cold water
-nice place to live
-cool clothes
-car
-boots
-chocolate
-healthy family
-money
this list could go on and on and on but lets just leave it here.

I find the more I simplify my needs list the more I see the great blessings God has given me. Also it helps me to know where and when to draw the line when buying things. I say do I want this or do I need this. If I want it then can I afford it, will I use it, or do I know someone who could use it. I hate when stuff just goes to waste in my home. I do have those kinds of things around here but if I hear of someone who needs something or I think of something I have that could be better used elsewhere then I try to give it. This is a learning process for me. I use to keep everything, but really why keep crap around that you think you might use 10 years from now. Just get rid of it.

I'm thinking about this because I just went through the kids toys again and got rid of a bunch of stuff. They really don't need much. I want my kids to appreciate what they have and having less helps that. I want to appreciate what I have too. There are so many people in this world that could use food, water, and a place to live so why do I waste money on another toy for my kids or a new pair of socks when I can just keep wearing Ryan's :)

But really this is going to sound lame but I am trying to keep it REAL and simple so that I will be able to help others. That reminds me I need to check out the World Vision website. You can buy chickens and cows for families in other countries! SO COOL!
hayes at 9:46 p.m.

4 Comments:

Blogger Stephanie said...

Such good thoughts! I completely agree. It's the first part of "letting go" of earthly things that is the hardest. Lately, when I want to hold onto something that I don't need (and know I need to let go of it) I think to myself, Self: Will this come with you into eternity. Answer: No. Then why are you holding onto it?!??!

Anyway, YOU ROCK!

1:26 p.m.  
Blogger Ruth said...

I totally agree... I've been weeding out toys, clothes, and "junk" from every part of our house in this time off. It feels good! We also try to give Christmas gifts from World Vision, MCC or Mercy Ships etc. for family. This year from Chris' parents we were given "A Cleft Lip and Palate Surgery" for an african child. I cried when they gave us the papers... (since Audrey just had palate surgery!) It was by far one of the most wonderful and moving gifts I have ever received. (getting misty here ;))
P.S. Did you ever get boots for yourself? I think you NEED (deserve) boots... :) We live in Winnipeg!

2:35 p.m.  
Blogger Ruth said...

I might NEED chocolate too...

;)

2:37 p.m.  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey sweets...Great post...I have been feeling that way too...especially around this season when commercialism is shoved in your face and you feel guilty if your not keeping up with the jones's when buying the kids xmas gifts.....simplifying is what i am all about,...time to clean the kids' room again!!! Good thought.....Hope You had a wonderful holiday season and that this New Year will be filled with TONS for you and your beautiful family,...sorry i haven't been the greatest at keeping in touch....I still love ya though....
Jobie is off to record this month for a month so its just me and the kids trekkin'.....eeeeeeeeekkks....anyhoo.....love ya babes! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

1:02 p.m.  

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